About

Please meet Heather Belle Murphy, a best-selling author and world-class dating and relationships expert, who is passionate about empowering people to profoundly heal, live fully, and find true love.

Her journey began as a teenager when she scored a job working behind the scenes and writing for the brand-new young women's magazine, Girlfriend. Rubbing shoulders with powerful influencers like Kylie Minogue and Jane Roarty, the infamously stylish yet kindhearted Fashion Editor of Harper’s Bazaar magazine, inspired her to follow her heart into a career of holistic empowerment involving body, mind, and spirit.

She then embarked on a five-year journey studying health science at the prestigious Southern School of Natural Therapies to fulfill her dream of helping others. However, her quest for personal growth and understanding through life coaching, psychology, and neuroscience led her to continue searching for answers and refine her approach to helping people heal and transform their lives.

Heather Belle’s approach is refreshingly candid, funny, and honest. Her social media presence—including regular radio and TV appearances, TikTok and Instagram accounts, and her YouTube channel—showcases her expertise on everything from making dating lots of fun, attracting your perfect match, to living your best life after falling in love with you!

With love, Belle

Hello Beautiful, are you a woman who loves too much?

I know how you feel. Once upon a time, I felt the same way.

Unknowingly, likely due to trauma from a difficult birth and being separated from my mother as a newborn, combined with a chronic illness during my childhood, I suffered from undiagnosed anxiety, depression, and hypervigilance—classic hallmarks of what I now know as PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder).

On the outside, it may have seemed like I was one of the pretty popular girls, excelling academically. But in reality, it was all an excruciatingly anxiety-inducing act. Early religious instruction (Christian Sunday School) no doubt added to my over-the-top need for perfection and further warped my perception of normality. I was so desperate to fit in and be liked that I became the ultimate empath and people pleaser, meeting the needs of others while ignoring my own.

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Meanwhile, inside and out, I despised and hated myself. I loathed my appearance, and when a family friend sexually molested me at 15, it triggered an eating disorder—Anorexia Nervosa—along with further self-hatred, shame, and drastic body image issues. Somehow, I limped through my 20s, made it through health science, and began working as a naturopath and remedial massage therapist.

By my early 30s, I started to believe I'd never find true happiness or that anything in my life, including finding true love or being financially stable, would ever work out. I felt like a mouse running on a wheel, and no matter how hard I worked, I wasn't going anywhere worthwhile.

I had flaky friends I supported as needed, who never had my back. Despite my best efforts, I attracted damaged, dysfunctional men who turned out to be abusers, losers, and users.

If I had devoted my life to helping people heal, why was everything such a mess? Why was I so unhappy? Why did I feel so unfulfilled?

When psychotherapy didn't help, and despite feeling a bit crazy, I continued to search for answers...

Then, seemingly out of the blue, within three months, I manifested my first husband! He was what I needed at the time, but I didn't know what I had done to conjure him up. I learned a great deal from him, and we shared some amazing times for the better part of a decade. However, the problem was: he was a stallion, and I didn't know how to handle him.

And after the better part of a decade, once again, I went from being his Precious Treasure to being treated like dirt until one fateful day when he kicked me out. I know he thought I'd spend about three days away, lick my wounds, and then come crawling back. Instead, I chose to stay put and later used the pittance of my very unfair divorce settlement to reinvent myself.

At 45, I embarked on a journey to study Life Coaching and became a highly sought-after Corporate Health Coach, working on-site in Melbourne's central business district with teams of predominantly male executives. For several years, I had the opportunity to observe highly educated, very intelligent men and finally learned what made them tick!

During this time, I finally consciously uncovered my underlying (unconscious) core issue. Despite years of education, personal development, psychology, and even prayers, I realized I still didn't love myself.

I was looking for love outside of me!

I expected my husband to cherish me when I didn't cherish myself!

How could I expect to be treated with dignity and respect if I didn't have that agency for myself?

I was naive to think that others would somehow guess my needs and know what to do. When I wasn't treated fairly, I didn't know how to avoid taking it personally. People were simply treating me the best way they knew how. Part of the reason I found it so hard to let go was the effect of being trauma bonded—something women are more susceptible to, thanks to the influence of the hormone oxytocin.

Now, I possessed the power!

Now I know better!

Around that time, I also began online dating and quickly realized everything had changed. We are in an incredibly powerful new paradigm that can change everything for the better if we know what we are doing!

I had a lot of fun experimenting with dating and along the way became crystal clear about who I am, who I was looking for, and gave myself permission to receive just that!

After five years of online dating, I met my perfect match for the next chapter of my life: the man next door, who even drives a Mustang, my favorite car!

Madonna herself was my matchmaker! He's tall and fair, just like the man I pasted in the middle of my Activated Vision Board!

Now, not only have I found the tools to heal rapidly—when traditional counseling and therapy (which often discussed symptoms without addressing the problem: unconscious core issues) failed—I kept searching for answers that ultimately led me down the path of Conscious Couple Counseling, Holistic Hypnotherapy, Health Coaching, and Rapid Transformational Therapy.

Love-Light,

Heather Belle Murphy 💗💗💗

Advanced ReMind Coach
Secure Attachment Specialist
Rapid Transformational Therapist
Dating, Love & Relationships Mentor
#1 Internationally Best Selling Author
Certified Holistic Hypnotherapy Health Coach & Naturopath
Member - International Hypnotherapists Association
Member - ICF International Coaches Federation
Fellow Member - Australian Natural Therapists Association 2630

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The heart of the matter...

Heather Belle has really established herself as a go-to resource for women looking to ignite their own passionate feminine vibe, lead with love, and forge their own unforgettable paths.

With big plans on the horizon, including more books and a podcast, Heather Belle Murphy is someone you'll want to keep an eye on as she continues to elevate and empower those around her.

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Advanced ReMind Coach
Secure Attachment Specialist
Rapid Transformational Therapist
Dating, Love & Relationships Mentor
#1 Internationally Best Selling Author
Certified Holistic Hypnotherapy Health Coach & Naturopath
Member - International Hypnotherapists Association
Member - ICF International Coaches Federation
Fellow Member - Australian Natural Therapists Association 2630

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Belle's coaching has transformed our marriage. When I was desperate she quickly taught me how to understand and communicate without overwhelming my Avoidant husband. Plus I'm proud to say I have taken responsibility for healing my Anxious Attachment & wounded Inner Child. Our intimate connection and trust has been restored and we are growing again in love after four years. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. XXX

Robyn S. Australia

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Working with Heather Belle has been life-changing. She helped me to heal panic disorder and depression. I've learned to regulate my feelings, set healthy boundaries both in my personal life and at work and communicate much more clearly instead of creating crazy conflicts - mostly in my head! I can't thank her enough.

Sunni J. Australia

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FAQS

Unlike regular coaching which can be thought of at best inspirational or motivational – which may or may not produce lasting change - transformational coaching addresses our (Super) Un-Conscious Programming and thereby, aims to make change easy and “conscious”.

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What is Advanced ReMind Coaching?
Can I be hypnotised?

LOL! That is of course! We are always in trance, some of us tell ourselves better stories! Sadly, many people are hypnotised by drama and violence. There are times when we are obviously in a state of trance – just as we wake up or slide off to sleep and when we daydream. I tell clients the session may feel like when we are daydreaming – we’re not actually asleep but we don’t want to open our eyes – we are enjoying the state of being here and yet not here. Other common examples of trance are auto-driving: how did I reach home? I can’t remember driving until I arrived at home, or realizing we are re-reading a page over and over and not having a clue what we just read. Or the same as when we vague out and miss a conversation. My mother, for example, is an expert amateur hypnotherapist!

How long does a session take?

I generally allow clients 60-75 minutes per session to enable them emotionally unpack, heal and process. Plus homework. Follow up sessions may be of shorter duration depending on the work that is required to follow up e.g. dealing with an addiction, desired weight loss or the resolution of a fear or phobia.

Can I experience full benefits via distance using Telehealth Zoom?
Should I eat beforehand?
Can I get lost in trance?

Be comfortable. Try and have a healthy sized meal beforehand and ensure you are well hydrated.
Allowing yourself to relax deeply will be a challenge if your tummy is growling!

Yes, absolutely, I have worked via Telehealth Zoom video calls for the last decade when I began working with corporate clients from a global telecommunications company. Occasionally the Wifi drops out and I simply call back and we pick up where we left off. Plus I email paperwork including assessments in advance so we can begin ASAP!

No! It would be like being worried that you wouldn’t wake up after falling asleep. Clients rarely fall asleep during ARC as opposed to classical hypnosis as the client is very much more involved and in fact integral for telling, interpreting and reframing their unique and special story.

What is Advanced ReMind Coaching?
What does it look like?

ARC embraces many of the positive aspects of hypnotherapy that are known to produce a transformative effect on clients: the use of trance, regression and hypnotic suggestion. However, ARC goes beyond, diagnosing what works with real clients in real sessions to build a new therapeutic approach. This modality identifies that regardless of an issue, clients benefit from applying a particular set of solution based techniques over and over again. These insights provided the foundations for Advanced ReMind Coaching to emerge as a distinctive individual approach.

We know that clients are time starved and come to us in pain, both physical and emotional. We want rapid results. Therefore, the first difference with ARC is it aims to deliver permanent change in for example problems with far reaching effects such addictions, fears, phobias, mental health issues, PTSD, weight issues, eating disorders, trauma and disease states.

Of course some clients will require additional Conscious Life Coaching in order to plan a Happy Life Recipe (including Emotional Processing, Life, Love, Relationship, Money & Success) or some ongoing Healthy Weight Coaching until they are empowered around a happy healthy relationship with food!

A significant difference with ARC is it is a method that truly empowers clients. Special techniques include: Role, Function, Purpose & Intention which is a process that honours the significance clients have unconsciously attached to their issues; for example a need to be significant, confident or in order to gain attention may manifest as a smoking addiction, diabetes (sweetness of life issues) depression or cancer as a form of protection or punishment. It honours and values the significance clients attach to their issues/problems and then offers as a powerful emotional release for them, which often releases a great deal of physical pain too - as tension is released.

Another difference with ARC is its use of Command Cell therapy as a modality for purposefully healing the body, as opposed to positive conditioning alone.

Also, ARC draws out ‘unfinished business’, meaning it is a technique for addressing the trauma that clients have been holding onto for many years.

Upgrading the Child offers a therapeutic space for dialogue and communication with significant others.

And lastly, ARC allows the client to fully explore “their story” and themselves uncover the significance and interpretation of events and then positively reframe (change the meaning) to allow complete resolution and healing.

TRIGGER WARNING

I have been helping clients unpack really traumatic stories for nearly thirty years and can report even from my own experience regarding the event of being sexually molested at fifteen years of age, that reviewing a story in trance is very different to reliving a trauma. It is a detached ‘witness’ state of revelation. I regularly see clients while tranced in states of incredible focus and concentration, even getting excited as they consciously realize this is the “thing” they need to get off their chest. It is like ripping off a scabby old band-aid in order to clean a wound to allow healing and resolution. And I am a very experienced and powerful Gatekeeper / Facilitator to encourage, support and hold hands with clients through the process.

This quickly leads to permanent and very powerful change backed up by powerful recordings that reinforce the transformation plus personalized homework and positive reinforcement.

As psychiatry, psychology and counseling are based on a “fractured” 19th century (un-Holistic) model. Let’s discuss how the “light bulb” got to be broken and how broken it is?! I tell clients – we know the light bulb is broken – we don’t need to spend years discussing how it got it broken or how broken it is do we? How about we “unscrew” the broken light bulb – that is: Psychologically Reverse the limiting belief: addiction, phobia, disease or symptoms etc that don’t serve us, then screw in the new brighter light bulb (New Desired Reality) and turn it on instead?! Or let’s spend years rearranging the deckchairs or examining the upholstery of the deckchairs of the Titanic!

Would you like to visit a dentist week after week and discuss how painful a rotten tooth is or would you want to have the problem resolved?

With my extensive background in natural therapies, nutrition, psychology latterly corporate health coaching - you could say I am a Rapid Transformational Therapist / Coach with a twist! As a Holistic Health Coach with 25 years’ experience in naturopathy (nutrition and medical herbalism) I also work with gut health and diet to modulate and upregulate nervous system and correct immune system function which may be ravaged by chronic stress, excessive or incorrect medication, improper drug use or poor lifestyle choices.

In relation to cancer challenge recovery coaching where the immune system post chemotherapy or radiation is in an extreme state of inflammation which radically affects feelings of wellbeing, at a time when clients may have been ravaged by the chronic disease state itself and feeling very poorly; ARC in conjunction with a few carefully chosen practitioner products can very quickly bring about a greater sense of wellness. It can also greatly enhance the body’s own recovery process through direct Cell Command Therapy and in tamping down the Auto-Immune system Type II T-Helper Cell Response. This is where an excessive release of T-Helper Cells creates dysregulation and interferes with the healing response and recovery.


How does ARC compare with for example a Psychology framework?
Can you guarantee results?


Just as a doctor cannot guarantee that a drug will work on an individual, no I cannot guarantee the same result with every client. It also depends on degrees of personal resourcefulness and skills. Some clients do a great deal of homework and daily reinforcement such as listening to transformational recordings provided and are in a place where they can put a lot of effort into changing or improving lifestyle choices. Other clients need more support and prefer more contact. As your coach and biggest fan, my focus is on whatever works best for you. Plus, as an Integrative Practitioner I commonly work with psychiatrists, specialists and doctors, and happily update them on our progress if as required, while ensuring the integrity of our sessions is kept confidential.