
Are You A Woman Who Loves Too Much?
Heather Belle Murphy
5/8/20241 min read
Hello Beautiful, are you a woman who loves too much?
I know how you feel. Once upon a time, I was too!
Unknowingly, probably due to trauma that resulted from experiencing a problematic birth & being separated from my mother as a newborn, combined with a chronic illness during my childhood, I suffered (undiagnosed) with anxiety, depression & hypervigilance, classic hallmarks of what I now know is PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder).
On the outside, it may have seemed like I was one of the pretty popular girls, especially as I also excelled academically. When, in fact, it was all an excruciatingly stressful act. Early religious instruction (Christian Sunday School), no doubt, added to my crazy need to attain perfection & further warped my perception of normality. I was so desperate to fit in, & be liked I became the ultimate empath & people pleaser to meet the needs of others while I seemingly had no needs.
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Meanwhile, inside & out, I despised & hated myself. I loathed my appearance, & when a friend of the family sexually molested me when I was 15 years of age, it triggered the eating disorder Anorexia Nervosa, & further self-hatred, shame & drastic Body Dysmorphia. At one stage, I was fortunate not to take my own life successfully.
Now, having found the tools to heal rapidly, when counseling and therapy (discussing the symptoms and not addressing the problem: Unconscious - Core Issues) failed, I kept searching for answers that ultimately led me down the path to rapid Holistic Health Hypnotherapy & Advanced ReMind Coaching.
Love-Light,
Heather Belle Murphy
Attachment Specialist - Dating, Love & Relationship Expert